If you have been watching Sex and the City, perhaps you may have seen one of their episodes in which the four leading ladies were discussing whether the penis size matters or not in a sexual relationship. Does size matter?
The reality is that not all men are equally endowed when it comes to their sex organ. According to recent studies, the average size of men's private organ is between 2.5 to 4.5 inches when it is flaccid and between 4 - 8 inches when it is erect. Moreover the penis size is also categorized according to ethnicity. African males are considered to have the largest size, followed by Caucasian men, and then the Asians come least. There are certain exemptions, of course. Although there are slight differences among the researches, you can already determine more or less in which category you stand.
If you are generously endowed with a sex organ, then you may have no problems at all meeting and dating women. Still, if you have a smaller size of penis, should you worry that much?
When it comes to the size of their privates, men often fall into the trap of thinking that the sexual satisfaction of a woman solely depends on the size. This is the reason why the market today abounds with a lot of male sex organ enhancing products. There is nothing really wrong in trying these products especially if they seek to please their mate and if these products effectively improve their relationship with their partner. But having a smaller penis size does not necessarily mean that you are not capable of having a great sex.
It is true that size matters for women, but this fact should be seen in the right perspective. While there are women who really give emphasis on penis size, most of them only look for that perfect size and the right size for them does not necessarily mean the largest.
Remember what happened to Samantha in that episode of Sex and the City? It was an embarassing and funny moment. Sure she had the size of her dreams but she in for a surprise and had to immediately refuse. Just imagine how a huge size can possibly shock a woman instead of attracting her.
In the end what matters really in a sexual relationship is not the size of your "privates." The importtant thing is you know how to handle and use it to give maximum pleasure to your partner. Besides it is not only the size but also your intimacy and compatibility as a couple that matters in a relationship.